The joy of becoming a fruit tree parent

It’s tree pick-up week for Carr’s Organic Fruit Tree Nursery, and as people have been coming to the farm to collect their fruit trees, the days have been full of conversations about people’s plans for their gardens and orchards, and their hopes and dreams for their fruit trees.

An excited new fruit tree parent
An excited new fruit tree parent

We’ve spent lots of time explaining different tree training systems and giving mini-pruning lessons, explaining the merits of different fruit varieties, and providing impromptu planting demos.

Sas giving a pruning lesson
Sas giving a pruning lesson

When they feel ready and armed with all the right info, we help them load up their trees and wave them off as they go home to get planting.

It’s a little like sending new parents home with their babies, and as I imagine midwives must feel when they say goodbye to a young family, I’m simultaneously delighted to see them start their journey together, and slightly nervous about how they’ll manage, particularly if they’re first-time parents.

Heading home with the new babies
Heading home with the new babies

Of course, trees and babies are completely different cases, because babies are the most precious thing in the world and must be kept alive at all cost, but it doesn’t really matter if a tree dies from neglect or mistreatment, it’s just a few bucks down the drain and you start again, right?

Trees waiting to be picked up
Trees waiting to be picked up

Strictly speaking of course that’s true, but actually, there’s a little more at stake.

You see, we know something more…we know what it feels like to nurture a fruit tree all the way through to maturity and harvest, and it’s almost indescribably satisfying.

It starts with planting it out in the right spot in the garden and giving it the first (terrifying) pruning.

Then you’re responsible for protecting it from pests that might damage it and making sure it has healthy soil and enough water.

You nervously watch it grow and then bloom, are awed by the miracle of pollination and seeing fading flowers falling off to reveal tiny fruit.

Hugh feeling proud of his nectarines
Hugh feeling proud of his nectarines

You protect the fruit from pests and diseases, and then … finally … harvest the most delicious fruit you’ve ever tasted in your life, because you grew it yourself.

Katie with a basket of perfect apricots
Katie with a basket of perfect apricots

Over years the trees grow, your skill grows, and your confidence that you can protect your precious crop against all the hazards and dangers that threaten it will grow too.

And it needs to, because this is important work. You’re providing nutritious organic food for your family for the whole year, not just summer. You’re saving money in the family budget. You’re giving your kids irreplaceable memories of picking fruit straight from the tree. You need to get results every year, not just the years you’re “lucky”.

And when it works and you bring in the harvest, you feel on top of the world because you know you’ve joined the ranks of one of the most important groups in society—the food providers, those salt-of-the earth types who have the seemingly magical ability to coax delicious food from a little dirt, sunshine and hard work. You’re a farmer.

We know all this because this has been our journey over the last 20 years. 

Yes, as with raising children, there’s pain along the way as you make mistakes and worry that things may wrong. We hope we’ve made that journey a little easier for you with our guide to How to Look After Fruit Trees in the First 3 Years.

But we also know the joy that lies ahead for you, and while admittedly it’s nowhere near as special as bringing a whole new human into the world, at least your fruit trees are not going to give you nearly as many sleepless nights!

2 thoughts on “The joy of becoming a fruit tree parent”

  1. Hi Katie,
    I enjoyed reading your loving reflection on fruit tree rearing. Have you ever done a calculation of how much time on average you give to tending a fruit tree? I’m not curious about commercial growers’ time so much as that of those who are feeding their families.
    Cheers

    1. Hi Kate, thanks for your kind comments. No, we’ve never done that calculation, but it would be an interesting thing to know. Apart from a couple of jobs that take a bit longer (like thinning, pruning or picking – and the time depends on the size of the tree, amongst other things) then an average of just a few minutes a week is usually ample.

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